Your penis is one of your most long-standing acquaintances. The two of you are very close; you lend it a helping hand on a daily basis. Nevertheless, many men have a love-hate relationship with their penis. Too big, too small, too thick, too thin or even crooked – rare indeed is the man who is fully satisfied with its appearance. And yet, many men identify with their penis. They give it a name, or even talk to it. And why do men give their penis a name? Because it’s nice to know the name of the one who’s calling the shots. But all jokes aside.
This estranged relationship leads men to treat their penis as a foreign entity. They even ascribe to it a will of its own – a will that most often rears its head (or rather, doesn’t) when the man himself wants things done completely differently. This can lead to moments fraught with embarrassment. Like an erection in the sauna, for example, or the lack thereof precisely when one needs it the most – during lovemaking. The fear of their own reactions that men develop as a result leads, in the end, to self-fulfilling prophecies, and to a state of affairs in which the penis wags the man.
In fact, it should be the other way around. You yourself want to have control over your penis. But in order for that to happen, you must first come to accept it for what it is. Learn to view it as a part of your body, not as some independent being. Take it for what it is, and be proud of it. It’s one-of-a-kind! That being done, you can also learn to control it, instead of being controlled by it. Even if it seems, to you, to be too small or too crooked, a penis that can be controlled by you is more satisfying to any woman than an objectively “more handsome” penis that controls its master. In fact, the latter situation can lead to fears that have markedly negative effects on one’s love life. So, enough already! In this book, you’ll learn to familiarize yourself with your penis and its reactions. This knowledge will provide you with a boost of sexual energy.
In what ways exactly have you come to know your penis more closely? When you were a kid, it was all about long-distance pissing. Later, during puberty, you rediscovered your penis as the source of sexual pleasure. Back then, it was still fun to become more intimately acquainted with it. But that probably proved to be the last opportunity for intensive hands-on contact. You experimented, you conducted research – and finally, you hit on how it “works.” You found that knowledge more than sufficient, and have hardly expanded it over the years. But for anyone who wants to achieve real control, simply knowing how something works isn’t enough. Maybe you were given a musical instrument when you were a kid – a recorder, or a harmonica. Sure, if you blow into it, sound will come out. But if you really want to master the instrument, then you have to learn how to use it correctly – not to mention practice. Are you not the musical type? Well, it’s similar with a bicycle or a skateboard. Anyone can ride a bike. But there are people for whom bicycling becomes a passion, who can carry out mind-blowing stunts on a bike. The ability to simply ride isn’t enough for them. It’s that way with many things – and with your penis as well. Not everyone wants to become a music virtuoso or an expert biker, but anyone who wants to have satisfying sex should at least master the most important sexual instrument. So, is that what you want? Then you’ve bought the right book – because a bike isn’t what you’ll be learning to ride here.
Many men feel the incentive to become a better lover. To that end, they buy books that tell them exactly how to satisfy a woman. They learn how to press all the right keys on the piano of the female body. That’s to be welcomed, in any event. But that all-important instrument – the penis – is for the most part neglected. Yes, it’s important to become intimately acquainted with the female anatomy – but isn’t it at least as important to get to know your own body, after all? That’s exactly what you’ll learn here.
The penis itself is not a muscle – otherwise, every fitness studio on the planet would be standing-room-only. There, men learn the art of bodybuilding. You might say that they pack quite a load of “dynamite” – but they neglect the “fuse.” There is, however, one muscle that’s essential for maintaining control of the penis. Training this muscle is the main goal! The good news is: You don’t need any fitness studio or any other equipment to do it – and all it takes is just a few minutes a day.
2. sample: the road to mastery
